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July 10th, 2007
SUMMER WEDDING WEAR by Hitha Prabhakar, Forbes.com
Never before have brides invested so much time and effort stage-managing their own weddings, including, most especially, what their guests are wearing.
“The way I see it, you only get married once. I wanted it really nice, and I wanted to make sure everyone was clear on how they should look, as well,” says Zora Mullholland, a 25-year-old bride in Dublin, Ireland, of planning her 2008 wedding. “I wanted it very upscale.”
Mullholland is so concerned about the sartorial state of her guests that she will include detailed instructions in her invitations explaining what exactly she means by “black tie.” She will stipulate that women wearing short dresses should also wear stockings and heels. She will instruct men to wear tuxedos.
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Unfortunately, for today’s wedding guests, few brides are as clear or direct.
Confused Company
Khrista Vagnozzi, senior editor of bridal Web site TheKnot.com, says couples striving to be clever are coming up with phrases such as “yacht chic,” “garden chic,” “city formal” and “beach formal” to describe how they want guests to dress. Such phrases leave many guests confused.
“There is a delicate balance between wording that shows the personality of a couple and something that is just really unhelpful,” says Vagnozzi. “The best way to avoid a wardrobe pitfall is to have items in your closet that are appropriate for a variety of settings and different levels of formality.” Then, she says, you’ll be sure to have “a dress, or sport coat and suit, that adheres to all these types of dress codes.”
What Works
Invitations that stipulate black tie are easiest, because the phrase is widely understood, says Anna Post, author of Emily Post’s Wedding Parties. Guests can keep it simple and adhere to the classics: a cocktail dress, say, and a tuxedo. Not only will these items be appropriate for the wedding; they can be worn for formal events all year round.
Since the word “chic” is ambiguous, use the location of the event and time of day when deciding what to wear.
For a wedding on a yacht, a sequin-trimmed wrap dress for women or a white suit for men is appropriate. If sand and ocean are part of the wedding plans, invest in a mid-calf or floor-length sun dress made of lightweight cotton. For men, a sport coat combined with a casual pair of pants prevents you from looking too casual–just don’t wear jeans. Going to a city wedding downtown? Chances are the couple throwing the wedding are sophisticated. The last thing you want to do is look too casual or last season. Step it up a notch by investing in a couture gown or a dark designer suit.
Still stumped? You’re in luck. Post says it’s appropriate to ask the bride to explain what she wants.
“Without a doubt,” she says. “Communication in any situation is key, and you should never be afraid to ask your hosts to clarify the dress code if something is ambiguous. After all, they want you to feel comfortable while celebrating with them–and the only way you can do that is if you feel good on the inside and out.”
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March 6th, 2007
Bridal Guide Magazine has published an “Expense Chart” for helping to set your wedding budget. Here’s the list:
Reception - 40%
Honeymoon - 14.5%
Photography/Videography - 10.5%
Miscellaneous (ceremony fees, rehearsal party, bridal party gifts, limos) - 10%
Bridal Apparel - 7%
Engagement/Wedding rings - 6%
Entertainment - 5%
Flowers - 5%
Invitation - 2%
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August 11th, 2006
Though we may make many commitments throughout our time on earth, few have a lifelong impact on the path our lives will take. The decision to marry someone you love-to bond yourself to them completely-is unlike any other and can reshape your existence. When two people have similar goals, values, and needs, marriage can result in a lifetime partnership of love and respect, shared laughter and tears, friendship, and intimacy that is ultimately fulfilling. Love is often cited as the sole prerequisite of a strong and stable married life. However, the decision to get married should be made with the mind and the soul as well as with the heart. Carefully considering whether you truly want to get married, both individually and as a couple, can ensure that if you do choose to marry, your relationship can grow to unimaginable depths.
The decision-making process you employ to determine whether you should marry should be a thoughtful and honest one in which you appraise not only your partner but also yourself. Consider that love and attraction do not guarantee long-term compatibility. If your relationship is not secure, marriage will not make it so. Likewise, if your partner is not as attentive, loving, or kind as you would like, your becoming spouses will not change that. Marriage has no power to permanently fill any emotional or spiritual gaps in your life. Before you choose to marry, ask yourself whether you and your partner are adept at resolving conflict, can speak openly to one another, and fully respect one another. Your attitudes regarding the nature of marital commitment, children and child rearing, and marital roles may be the same or they may differ. It is your shared responsibility to discuss your similarities and come to agreements regarding your differences that will predict how successful yo! ur future marriage will be. Often times, younger couples rush into marriage just for the wedding dress, the ring, the party, and honeymoon. Would you still be willing to be married if you couldn’t have these things?
Remember that planning a wedding is simple when compared to the intricacies of nurturing a marriage. The honeymoon and nesting period will eventually wear off, and what you are left with is a partner for life. When you work together with your partner, reassure and support one another, and are honest about your feelings regarding marriage, you’ll come to the right decision.
From DailyOM.com
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May 9th, 2006
Zach Rebackoff, a former MLB umpire, turned his love for sports into a thriving photography business working with young athletes. Greater Image Photography has been providing youth sports pictures to familes in St. Louis for almost a decade.
When I visited with Zach at his Chesterfield home office, he told me, “Taking pictures of kids is great but there’s nothing more satisfying than taking pictures of a wedding couple. It’s a joyous and festive day. My images will be in their life forever.”
Zach’s colorful personality will make anyone smile. His photography style is versatile ranging from traditional poses to creative, artistic expression.
“Our Photography Check List helps to prepare for the big day. We want to make sure the end result is everything the bride & groom expected.” The check list is extensive, however; Zach feels it’s more of a guideline that helps wedding couples decide on important snapshots.
Greater Image also offers a unique concept in reception photography … a portable studio! They set up an area where guests can have their pictures taken in a more formal setting other than just sitting at tables or standing in the room. The studio comes equipped with a backdrop and professional lighting.
Since all pictures are digital, viewing the proofs is quick and easy. There are so many options to choose from - online, in a book, CD, magazine format, with or without borders, cropped or uncropped etc. After you choose your pictures for processing, the albums are assembled by the wedding book manufacturer and previewed by Zach prior to delivery. Again, there are so many format options - coffee table books, custom albums, leather albums, gift books, online album design and collage album prints. Regardless of what you choose, every wedding package offered by Greater Image Photography includes every image they record.
As a gift to you for trusting Greater Image Photography to capture the moments of your wedding day, Zach sends you on a Carnival cruise to Cozumel, Mexico! The ship leaves out of Galveston, Texas or Miami, Florida. You are responsible for your transportation to either port. There are no black out dates except for prominent holidays. If you book Greater Image Photography far enough in advance, you can have a relatively free honeymoon! What A Great Deal!

Zach Rebackoff - Greater Image Photography showing a small portion of his vast collection of autographed sports memorabilia. Your sports oriented groom or guests will love talking baseball with this published author “Tough Calls” and former pro umpire. Autographs free!”
To learn more about Zach Rebackoff and Greater Image Photography, call 636-728-1214 or eMail zachreb1@greaterimage.com
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April 19th, 2006
One of the most impressive aspects of visiting the Anheuser-Busch Brewery in St. Louis is the beautiful, well manicured landscaping and gardens. It is no different at the Anheuser-Busch Center in Fenton.
Colorful spring flowers, stately brick walls and elegant wrought iron fencing grace the entrance of One Soccer Park Road. The parking lot is expansive and spotted with island groups of pampas grass. The towering street lamps will make any dark night seem like day.
The entrance of the building has a massive brick portico, which is peppered with planters that are filled with seasonal flowers. The gardens along the windows are also bursting with color. The easy in and out access is perfect for senior citizens and disabled guests.
Since the Anheuser-Busch Center caters only one wedding at a time, you are guaranteed personalized service from the entire staff. Michelle Wagner, the administrative coordinator, gave me a tour of this first class facility. Her friendly smile and upbeat personality will calm any nervous brides’ jitters.
The first door to the St. Louis Room opens into a lounge area with comfortable parlor seating. Along the inner wall hangs a black granite counter type table (perfect for seating cards, guest book, floral arrangement etc.) The opposite wall is lined with floor to ceiling windows that overlook the front entrance garden. Two highly polished Cherry wood doors open into the main room, which is furnished with round tables and covered with white linen. The upholstered chairs are attractive and quite comfortable. If desired, one could contract a rental company for elaborate chair covers; however; it would not be necessary as the chairs blend nicely into the room.
The Anheuser-Busch Center uses fine china, glassware, silverware and linen napkins. Centerpieces are always made of fresh seasonal flowers that are placed on a mirror tile with votive candles. And they’re complimentary! The banquet supervisor will try to accommodate your flower color choices, however; if you have something specific in mind, you may want to hire a florist.
The St. Louis Room and attached, glass-enclosed Veranda will comfortably seat 250 guests. The St. Louis Room may also be used alone to create a more intimate reception, perfectly fit for 180 people. The Veranda offers your reception an open and relaxed atmosphere which overlooks a sea of lush, green grass on the main exhibition field. The Veranda ceiling has retractable shades to shield guests from the sun when closed or allow the starry night view indoors when opened. There is plenty of space for the portable dance floor and whatever entertainment you hire. Additionally, if you want some fresh air or some guests smoke, the patio overlooking all the fields is available for use.
Jack Conway has been the Executive Chef at the Anheuser Busch Center for over 15 years. His culinary creations stand up to any five star restaurant. Wedding reception selections range from hors d’oevres, cheese/fruit platters, carving board choices of beef, turkey and ham. Or choose from the all-inclusive sit down or buffet menus that include soup, salad, entree and desert. Chef Conway’s talents don’t end with traditional food preparation; the menu extends to themes such as Italian, New Orleans, Germanfest and BBQ. Regardless of your tastes, Chef Conway and Sous Chef Mary Gould will prepare delectable foods that will delight your taste buds.
One of the most unique features of the St. Louis Room is its black marble fireplace. Kenny Endermuhle, Supervisor of Sales and Marketing of the Anheuser-Busch Center said, “The fireplace makes a great backdrop for headtable pictures but a bride can put the headtable wherever she wants.” This seems to be the overall theme with the staff … whatever the bride wants … as long as it represents the quality that Anheuser-Busch built its reputation on.
If all this sounds great, hold onto your hat! You can have an elegant, first class wedding reception in the $7000.00 range. For a tour and more information, contact Michelle Wagner at (636) 349-3701 or eMail Michelle.Wagner@anheuser-busch.com.
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April 13th, 2006
Making attractive table centerpieces can be alot of fun. The hard part is developing an idea, gathering up the materials and finding storage place.
The basic rule of thumb is not to obstruct your guests’ view of other guests and YOU!
When purchasing items for your centerpiece, ask yourself this question, “Can I use this in my home afterward?” If you can, the investment is all the more worthwhile.
For example:
Instead of using mirror tiles, buy plate chargers or cloth placemats that you can use for those elegant dinner parties you’ll be having after the honeymoon.
Or, depending on the time of year, buy flower bulbs and perrenials to plant in your yard. Create miniature herb gardens by filling clay pots with parsley, chives, rosemary, thyme and sage.
Table centerpieces do not need to be “exactly” the same. Start going to garage sales, flea markets and antique malls to find vessels for cut flower arrangements. A porcelain pitcher, a brass or silver ice bucket, a vintage basket, a crystal bowl etc. These are all useable items for your home.
An inexpensive and creative container is a picture box. Everyone loves to look at pictures, especially of the bride and groom. Gather up your favorite photos and make copies. Glue them on a box that is the appropriate size for the table. (Note: Be sure to use an acid free paper glue.) You can place a candle ON the box or put flowers IN the box.
Visit the Bridal Message Board for more centerpiece ideas.
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April 10th, 2006
Recently, I was invited to join a group of 50 people for a day along the Mississippi and Illinois Rivers. They rented two trolley cars to transport everyone. Each trolley seated 30 people so we had plenty of room for coolers and stretching out.
Before boarding the trolleys, we all met at Kilroy’s - a homestyle restaurant overlooking Smartt Airfield in Portage Des Sioux. The owner, Lori Cotton was kind enough to let everyone bring their favorite Bloody Mary recipe and we sampled the spiked tomatoe juices while enjoying Lori’s tasty breakfast treats.
We met the trolleys in the parking lot at Sharkys Cove, one of the largest floating restaurants on the Mississippi River. Everyone took their seats and we were off on our adventure to Grafton, Illinois.
Rather than drive around the horn, our trolleys drove onto the
Grafton Ferry. We got out of the trolley and marveled over the scenery. The trees are just budding and spring is in the air. I was told the Grafton Ferry is also available to rent for private parties but only after the close of normal operational hours. How about a moonlight cruise?
Once in Grafton, we stopped at the Loading Dock. This is an airy place with a huge deck overlooking the confluence of the Mississippi and Illinois Rivers. They offer catering for private parties on the deck, under their big top tent or in the Boatworks building. It’s a fun place to watch “river traffic” from small boats to enourmous barges.
Our next stop was Aerie’s Riverview Winery. WoW! Our trolley was like the “Little Engine That Could” as it climbed its way up a steep hill to reach a quaint house with a million dollar view. This is a perfect place for an intimate afternoon event. They offer a wide range of wines, a limited selection of beer, cheese and sausage trays and other munchies. But the cool thing is, they encourage you to bring your own picnic basket and just sit on their deck and enjoy the view.
The trolleys were waiting to take us to Piasa Winery so we loaded back up and braked our way down the hill. Piasa Winery has a beautiful deck overlooking the Grafton Marina. They serve wine from their own vineyards as well as micro-brewed beers.
We also went to the Wild Goose Saloon & Grill and again, the view was spectacular.
For a list of other eateries and things to do in Grafton, visit the Grafton Chamber of Commerce website.
Our day concluded back at Sharkys Cove where we had a great steak dinner and watched the sunset over the Mississippi River.
This would be a fun trip for friends and family of the bridal party, out of town guests or bachelorette/bachelor parties etc.
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April 5th, 2006
StLouisWeddings.com is taking the Internet highway … we’re Blogging!
Our goal is to provide you with information about wedding planning and wedding vendors.
We’ll be writing about brides, grooms, family issues and marriage. We’ll interview companies that cater to the St. Louis wedding market.
Since this is a work in progress, your comments and/or suggestions are welcome.
Let the blogging begin!
Best Wishes,
Teri Nickinello
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